Thank you so much for your reply. I see in your profile that you're thinking of putting your writing out there. Just what you wrote to me could be a post, your perspective as someone who loved his wife but who had fallen out of love and you went on to forge a new, happy life. I hope you post a piece about this using much of what you wrote here. On a personal note, thank you so much for your feedback. It's perplexing to do something so hurtful to someone you love and in writing it, it's helped me understand how a person can enter such an altered state and loose their moral compass. Thank you. - Leslie