I couldn't agree more . Dignity vs. deception. There are principles in life and obligations. Always now I will go towards honesty and dignity and respecting someone else. I still mess up, but I'm trying to stay conscious. What you write about something I was trying to get to the heart of, tat the deception is terrible for both parties, well, the worst for the person betrayed, but over time for me it wore away at my sense of self until I could only see someone who is a terrible person. Not worth the betrayal in any regard for all the damage its done.